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It is 4 months or more now and I really don't want to give this to my wife for V-day if she doesn't already have it?I ended up with H1 and she has had cold sore in past I don't ever remember her with any but anyway she has not got a blood test she assumes she already has it in her blood and nothing they would ever culture in her woman parts she was having some discomfort in that area and abnormal discharge that the docs could never get to the bottom of and lasted a good 3 weeks or more and also the bumps they say are not related.to say the least I feel I already have given it to her but just incase I have not should I be safe to go ahead with no visible OB only the first.still feel my body feeling are still not normal. (Prodrome) symptoms come and go but more come with just a off feel down there? We need this but don't want to make thing anymore F-up.thanks for all feedback.

It has been going on for some time all of the above not sure how to go on living normal when I'm not feeling that way.i had only one ob but have had the other symptoms going on 4 months.they say that H1 doesn't like down south but I have not felt right below the belt line seems to me like I will feel like this forever?my back has been real sore also.

Yes I am having all the same things going on they seem to come and go its a living hell right now with no end in sight?

My wife is having same problem has been going on for some time she has been to hand full of docs and her ob gyn.She also has abdominal pain comes and goes.She had three spots show up and then all other problems come. Has been checked three times for all other std and bacteria But H has no visible sores they say the bumps are not related?and has had cold sores before I came up with H1. I went to a infectious specialist and that was a joke.why I really wanted to post here is all the docs we have seen a told what happened don't seem to have any idea that H can cause discharge and all the other discomforts along with it? They just blow it off

My wife is having the same thing going on and is clear of everything else has been examined and they didn't see any sores. And has not been diagnosed with H she had a few spots show up that still have not changed so they told her they are not related but I fell as dancer said this is her body trying to fight it off?This has been going on for some time have you ladies had any abdominal pain with it? Thanks for any feedback has her obgyn in said were at a loss of what is going on. I still feel it's all from this f-ing virus.

I have tingling in balls every day. I am snapping over stupid shit. I talked with a therapist last week helped some going to try and go with my wife this week.think I need some anger management streaming from before this has just made me worse.I need a change of mind state in a big way.I watched some of those videos and helped but still in a bad place.i got a doc to write me a suppression scrip for 2pills a day for 3 months have not started them yet not sure if right thing to do?also my back has been super sore in the lower part of it where I guess the place it goes is this common?

I feel like shit everyday I have beat myself up so bad that I'm not sure I can come back from this.i wake up everyday with same feeling in my gut that I have ruined my family and life will never be the same because of my actions.i have called to try and get someone to speak with but have not found anyone yet.dont know if I can take this feeling anymore.

Anyone have same symptoms

My wife is having back pain and discharge that comes with yellowish color with sensitive vagina.Her urine is clear of bacteria had a pap swear that was normal and a walk in clinic did a swab send off and it was normal.her last visit her obgyn treated her for BV. She said she felt some better but came back after she was done with insert gel.she has been cleared of all std two times but H. I have H1 and she has had cold sores? She had blister looking bumps come up after sex a week later and they have not changed we have been told they are not herpes because of look and they have not opened that they are something from post childbirth are girl is 10 months? Have any of you ladies had tender back, discharge and sensitive vagina from H for weeks on end? I have found similar story's where they thought it was yeast,uti,or other bacteria and were cleared of all only leaving H as culprit.My wife left obgyn today with her saying will get to bottom of this and is running more test the doc thinks it could be BV not gone and send culture off. Now another 2 day wait and pray she feels better.

We would be able to get passed it if we could just feel normal.Its just slapping us in the face with her not feeling good and kills and scares the hell out of us.that we don't really know what's going on with her. She has a dull pain in back and yellow discharge again.

Just as I figured no bacteria.how can this cause so many other problems besides sores?

Thanks dancer! I just read other peoples story that had ongoing uti that had blood and white blood cells in them but no bacteria and ended up being H.My wife took meds for uti and BV said she felt some better but when she finished the discomfort comes right back.same thing that the other ladies said in there blog. We are waiting to her back what is causing this from urine sample if there is no bacteria then what else could be causing this besides H ?

I can pee and have no sores. When I feel I have to pee that's been very often lately feel irritation in the track and kinda dribbles like I don't have full control.For the sensitive skin I was thinking about asking this next specialist I go to for Zostrix it's for pain from shingles but read your not to put on mucus membrane? I think the head of the penis is considered one? We have not had sex cents before thanksgiving due to my wife's ongoing issues that were told it was not H retaliated.She had BV Uti and now possible yeast we will know more next week.it just doesn't add up that her spots show up that everyone saying isn't herpes and all these other problems after that one time of sex.This has been more than I can take lasting this long it's not showing any sign of letting up.it is ripping a young promising family apart.If we were better we could make love and get over it but with us not able to is taking its toll. With a new baby there is no time for any other experimenting we are married and no what we want.not sure what to say I am very depressed not sure if I will ever feel like myself is killing me. and not making living enjoyable.

In November. Only the one but the skin is still sensitive.the tingling is still everyday

I would like to know that also. I feel like I got mine after a mistake but was told I have had this sometime due to a high pos igg after two weeks.i still find it hard to believe it just came out.

So are we more likely to pass it if we are experiencing these symptoms with no sores?

Same here and wondering same thing?

Yes waiting for the day I feel normal again.it has got better but still feel off.i am also married with a new addition to our family and this comes up!talk about bad timing.I was told by my high positive after two weeks made a horrible mistake on a trip.that it didn't come from that I have had this some time and possible my wife could of given it to me from oral being see has had cold sore in past? Not one that I have ever seen she said she had one during pregnancy?I just find it hard to believe I have had this in me and just comes out and causes so much problems wouldn't are body be building antibodies before first OB?I see a specialist on the 3rd I will post what he says about high numbers and being new infection also if he does anything for my ongoing symptoms.

I have had same thing going on for months now. the irritation in my penis as seem to go away some the tingling is still everyday thing very frustrating. I still get red spots that come up and go almost like constant prodrome? Can't understand how it last this long? Every time I pee I can see red patch that comes up in area I had OB.

What kind of prodrome symptoms are you having? I also have hsv1 and seem to have constant tingling and red spots that come and go where I had my OB.

Anyone ?

Yes I am.it just feels odd and the redness coming and going around the area I had OB?and the irritation in my urethra has not changed? I have read other people having same problem due to H?it looks same just irritated and wrinkled with the off color patches coming and going?

I have dealing with this from day one. The change of texture and redness and sensitivity to my penis head.it just looks completely deferent than before.skin is wrinkled and more shinny and redness comes and goes?i have read other peoples story's that have had same thing go on and never got normal.all docs told him looked normal just like I have been told but it does not I know my body we'll I did know it before all of this.have any of you guys had this happen has it ever got back to normal.i still have lot of tingling in my balls just feel like it's still very active due to all the stress I have been dealing with.when I get it hard it's almost like I can see where lil spots were or want to come out? Very confused by this and feel no docs or dermatologist will be able to do anything.any info will help.

? She said those bumps were not.but if we ever have another baby she will put her on antiviral to be safe.i plan on seeing the specialist I just read someone story that has same thing going on as I do.the redness and change to my penis head and ongoing discomfort from it.my gland on head look completely different kinda wrinkled looking and just feels deferent to rest of penis and the redness and pain seems to come and go this other person had same thing going on and has never got normal? I am scared that I will never look or feel the same down there.very depressing.

Thanks. her obgyn told her that the spot were something post labor in woman and treating her BV with some kind of gel she has to put up in her.i still can't understand how they showed up week later on her with all the other stuff. But my wife trust her she is a good doc.cervix didn't seem to be inflamed like other docs said?