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  1. Thanks she just called her ob gyn because no available spot for today at Heath department.Dont think she will get in her ob gyn today.she really did not want to call there because she knows people in that office but I told her they would know the most and take best care of her not just sending her on way with no answers. Even with me having first OB and her getting spots week later you think could be anything else? I hope she can find out soon did they do anything for you when you had them in your cervix?
  2. Yea she has had small blisters for weeks that did not bother her so she didn't go get checked was to ashamed and figure if only H1 will go away and never come back.Then a week or two ago during Christmas started having discomfort and some greenish thin discharge with some Oder and now a uti! on top of it.did you have a ongoing burning she thinks the uti is not clearing up.to me it's just crazy that the blister have not changed or healed even after taking some Epsom salt bath and antivirals.thanks for the feedback!
  3. So if you have sores in your cervix it can make you have discolor discharge? Was there any off odor?my wife is trying to be seen today with with these problems.she is going to test for BV and Trich. It's hard to get in to her obgyn what else should she ask Doc at Heath department?
  4. I passed it very easy to my wife that has had cold sore before we figure she has had H1? It was my first ob and didn't know so I was shedding a lot. I could tell this a week or so after because my penis looked to be peeling bad. I started out with a small red spot and was told it was nothing first visit. It got a bit worse then healed up we had sex one time before thinking it wasn't anything and she gave oral and it didn't show up on mouth but week later she had few small blisters that are not changing in genitals.So her antibodies didn't help her but this was without meds and all that. How has H1 been for you?it has been painful where my sores have healed "tip of penis" very sensitive and ongoing irritation in UT track were both going to be checked out for anything else that could be causing this but I feel it the H hard at work! After reading post with other people saying same thing.Hope this feeling will go away at some point?
  5. She is going first thing in the morning would you say just try and go to her obgyn or to the Heath department? I would think her doc would be better if she can get in.i am going to see if I can get in to urologist sooner than Friday I still have irritating feeling in my uretha tube?and pain where sores where weeks ago? Held me back from living normal life today not being able to do long time passion without being in pain.
  6. Thanks for info.i have seen where they say it can cause sores/blisters?but it's not under any of the symptoms I saw? She will ask for them to test for it.Is this common one to get mixed up.I still think it's H infection doing this with the UTI . What do I know right well all just seems to be text book h with how it showed up on me as sore only had sex one time and week later it shows up on her.after I test positive for H1 we both figure thats it.with her having two small blood looking blisters that have not changed in over 4 weeks!! Now the uti and the greenish discharge she is worried its Trish or something else and is going ASAP.the h didn't scare her to much.
  7. No she said they just dipped hers,and sent some off to lab to see what Bacteria is causing uti.I was ran for reg std scanning and pee was dipped the other day again but I'm not sure if it was looked at under microscope ever?i have tested positive for Hsv1 blood test and again 7 weeks later same result as before so I could of had this for awhile. Do you have to ask for them to look at is under microscope.it said if left untreated it can cause permanent pain? Why haven't i been told of this if it's so common?the greenish discharge with Oder does that ever happen with h said its a sign of infection so I figured it could be, said trish can cause sores also? She plan on going to Heath department Monday the walk in was not much help!
  8. Do any of you know about this and if we are tested for it on reg STI screening.The only way I seen they test for it is by swab?The main thing is my wife is in bunch of discomfort she went to walk in clinic 2 days ago for UTI got the meds but they are not helping.The doc would not even look at her bumps saying they will go away?was more worried with uti well she has been having green discharge. She was online and found this std saying it can cause bumps and same symptoms we are having? I just want to know if there are other names for this?Is it on the basic screening?If not have there been people that get Trich?and H misdiagnosed.They say it's one of the most common?Thanks for any info.
  9. Also my wife has a UTI she got strip that said positive .she is on her way to walk in clinic only one open today in are area.Is it only type 2 that can cause uti? that is info she found? Can they type H in a walk in clinic?Here blister just look like lil blood blisters that are not changing, not open so it seems hard to fight them that way?Have any of you ladies had this go on for weeks with no change? Thanks for any info. Happy New Years.
  10. First I went to doc to ask about ongoing pain in UT. We'll it was the health department she had me pee in cup and said there was no bacteria in my pee and told me to keep my urologist apt.It does seem to be going away now? I also got blood ran again I know I should of waited longer but just want to see if any thing showed up on igg for two.as for the abreva? my wife bought some as she thought she felt a oral ob coming on. She ask me if anyone one here used for genital area.she is taking eps salt bath and says it makes it feel much better.She is taking 6-800 ml a day of my antiviral. She looked it up and said she can not take L lysine when breast feeding?i did look at the links and going to try and buy some of the alum stuff .also I saw where they use a mixture of few things including abreva so I figured it couldn't hurt. Has anyone used this method.i was putting regular hydrogen peroxide on my outbreak right on penis head seem to work? I ask the girl to send in scrip for me and she wouldn't saying I didn't need it because of no sign of ob wanted them just incase something else shows up or for my wife she will not go to anyplace around here working with all doc in are area and is to embarrassed and does not really have the time.She is going on 4 weeks and really didn't feel anything till bout week or so ago.She said she had a good amount of discharge this morning been taking meds for 3 days. Just want to get her cleared up so we can move on with our life.her blisters have never opened is this normal should she just leave them be?
  11. Yeah I had no words at first just looking down at myself trying to pee it's got better but not all the way I can't get to a urologist till the 9th and not sure if they can do anything for me? At first only way I could go normal was in salt bath warm water I would just start flowing right away.How does a skin condition mess with your UT?
  12. I am right there with you! How long have you been at it?the peeing thing has been a real pain.my sores are gone but still red and sensitive skin,tingling.i have been dealing with that 2 months or so going to doc today to see if they can send me to specialist.i just feel is ongoing from H and there is nothing they can do? Will see.they all say it gets better in time.I hope so for all of us!
  13. Thanks beachdude were the same age if you were born in 84. I also live at the beach don't even have it in me to paddle out I'm so pissed at myself and in dark place.in wetsuit now but around the house it hurts to just where board shorts have to put on underwear. Can't or don't feel like doing my life long passion that's how I know I'm real bad place if I don't want to paddle out.would always rub lil raw when I surf a lot now I feel that's going to bring on ob?
  14. I still wake up first thing on my mind. Like waking up from bad dreams everyday.i don't want to get out of bed I can here my lil girl playing and the feeling of being a failure takes offer hole body! Sorry I ask same question just want to see if anyone has had same skin and pain issue as us.i have everything to be happy about but just can't shake it.My wife started to take my antiviral and she is breast feeding now I have my lil one getting tainted milk.Plus if she has bad side effect? The fact is I did fuck everything up now I'm finding it hard to live with.that is all we have spoken about cents coming up.now she is telling me thats how I should feel and I no that. She loves me but this has been to much to take when I tell her she can find someone better she says not now as she feels unwanted that kills me because if something were to happen to me she would just not even try because of this. Every little detail is on my shoulders just can't take it anymore. I put my family Heath at risk.my wife is having oral ob on top of it.wcd dancer you don't think I would have any igg built up by almost 3 months? Has anyone went two,two half months after expo and got valid results ?Quest says to come back in 4-6 weeks if it's recent exposure? For H2 I was > 0.90 does anyone get 0.00? High pos for h1
  15. Also she said she had green color discharge lately. I can promise you the no sex is taking its toll on us :(
  16. Wife took a emp salt bath now she said it is stinging. Now were both going to be in pain.Great
  17. Ok same as before.sore is gone just red and tender right on my penis head. The thing that is freaking me out now is every time I pee it looks like it comes up to surface making a pretty good size red spot? Other off color spots also.it's like it just hanging out moving all around trying to bust out but it's not.i am able to pee but do feel a constant irritation in my UT could it just be part blocked? Can't pin point it but feel it's the h that has track all messed up ? I mean what about all the other people only able to pee in bath or the pain in UT how long does that last for them? It all seems to stem from that area out. If I could get this pain away and my wife cleared up think I can put this in the back of my mind.But not with a constant reminder make one go insane!
  18. Today all my feelings are on overload again.my wife is having first discomfort after having blisters for 3 weeks or more. Not sure if I can take anymore guilt. We both feel it is H2 after I told her. I want to get tested again ASAP to see if any igg shows up for 2.we are both wanting it to stay h1 hoping for mild or none after this.wcd dancer you said that you have spoke with people that have had this bad and long first OB of H1 ?I can just feel how bad I have hurt her she is the most faithful person u could ever ask for and I failed her. I always told her if something was to happen to me I want you to be happy and find someone else.now I know that will be much harder.how am I to live with that on my shoulders.There are many things that make us want to work it out.thanks for all your help!
  19. I am going on around 2 half month or so and still have a lot of tingling down there? Main thing is my junk is always small like I just got out of freezing water or something I was thinking it was my nerves because they have been shot but now I think this is a part of H?it gets hard no problem but after just goes back to hiding?have any of you had this problem has it got better? Not sure if the tenderness on my head that is making it do that or what but it's real old.Also have antivirals made you wake up covered in sweat this happened at first and now again when I started back? I don't feel right in my own skin my hole bottom half feels out of whack. How am I to feel better when have this going on? I have tried to be happy today but it's hard just thanking god I still have a family is all I need.the peeing thing has gotten some better but not flowing normal and when I masturbated after long time I could tell that didn't come out normal I defiantly feel there is some kind of blockage?
  20. I have told her.we are going to try and work it out for are family and us as life partners.She is the strongest most important person in my life.i don't want one big mistake to end life as we know it.The biggest worry now is if this could be something thats different that could be a life threat she is going to get checked out when we get home.Is there anything else that causes blisters that we should be worried about?I was test for everything do others take time to show up?
  21. My worst fear is a reality.the guilt of giving it to my wife has been eating me alive.I told her,you and myself it was only a handjob but the truth is I also had protected sex when out of country in area where it's just kinda put in your face"girls working" got kinda of drunk and did the unthinkable knowing the hole time it was wrong.got tested 2 weeks later pos for h1 so was told I have had for some time with a high igg. Couldn't keep in any longer but really still haven't said yes I slept with someone but she knows from how bad my guilt is and almost saying it. She said she couldn't handle that and I just go back to it didn't happen hiding behind a lie.if it turns out to be H2 we will both know that's were it came from.All I can do is pray that doesn't happen and she can somehow forgive me ? Don't feel she should. She is my everything and I have taken every thing in my life for granted now it's all come down.this will destroy a great family.
  22. Mine has been sore for 2 months. The actual sore itself is gone just kinda red a sensitive! Can't go with out boxer just feel like I will rub it raw. My girl has couple of lil blisters that are not going away she is not taking meds. She is breast feeding are baby. How long does it take your sores to clear up?
  23. Wth a year ? I have same problem red and very sore it's on my penis head. I don't think I could take a year of this. I am having trouble with normal flow when I'm peeing have you had any trouble with that?
  24. Thanks,yes I have looked at some just not really sunk in that all will be ok.my sore on penis is gone just looks lil red.so I'm just hoping it doesn't break out.i have to wear cotton boxers can't go with out my head is still to sensitive.i can pee just not with normal power and flow very scary. This is not a long term effect on anyone is it? As mine has lasted awhile can't go to doc for week?
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