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Getbetter111

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  1. Yeah it's pretty devastating.i ask him to swob it but he refused? She is always grabbing for mouth when feeding, for my phone after I could of touched it before washing hands?not sure how in the world we could of given it to her.i really don't know what to do
  2. The doc just said it could be with both of us having it and no other outside exposer.i felt at one point during this I was having oral OB and wife feels like she has one now but if so they are very small not really open?if thats enough to pass? Baby throat was a lil red also said that could be any virus but also hsv. Gave me a scrip of liquid antivirals to use for 5 days not sure how I feel about that.said I can use them or just wait but work best a first sign.also if nothing happens just stop at 2 or 3 days?i worry most about her rubbing I just put her down and had to hold her arms down to stop her rubbing mouth to her eye when she gets tired.she has the prettys mouth and blue eyes just kills me this is happing.I had a friend stop by when I was breaking down and told him everything he called his dads doc that is about to pass and ask what I should do.he said put lil socks over her hand and put abreva on not much else you can do.i just can't take something happening to her.
  3. I woke her up from nap a she has cold sore on bottom lip I am taking her to doc at 2.i can't take this bs she is always rubbing her mouth to eyes I'm pretty much breaking down. We always wash are hands my wife said she felt that she has small one on corner of mouth but I couldn't tell.how does this happen. I can't take this anymore
  4. We'll the obgyn nurse called at end of day and said they won't see her until the Pap smear comes back.we are both really freaking out everything saying that if left untreated it can move up in you and make it worse even into blood now she is feeling it in her back and higher up than before.her labs came back from walk in clinic neg for all other std that cause it but the BV could be adding to it.i was told by a hotline that hsv can only make it discomfiting not cause PID only bacteria can do that so just worried it's the BV doing it but usually isn't the cause.i almost feel I should have her go to er but don't think they can do much but another pap as were waiting on one to come back.If those docs would of realized what it is but they are basing it off looks. This is bs they don't have more info on this if it's so common.
  5. That's what I'm telling my wife to call them she thinks some labs are coming back today from walk in clinic and is going to call when those come in.thanks for your feedback.
  6. No the last doc told her BV will clear up that she doesn't need anymore meds as she is on antibiotics and taking some of my left over antivirals.she is breast feeding and told that is to much at one time on baby! Her obgyn should be calling today but said they are waiting for Pap smear to come back. I would hope they would have her come in for a look.this has been very hard on us to say the least.
  7. Yea I figured the ladies at heath dep would have known more? Yep I guess I will try that specialist I have called a few time but need a to drop off paper work that I have to there office first.not really asking anyone to say anything just want to know if anyone here has had same problems.as I feel it's all due to H.with info on both problems saying hsv virus can be the cause.i just took bath helped some but still feel it. The only thing I can think is to go on daily antivirals for a bit see if it helps? But last time I asked for refill she told me no need because there were no sores! I realize know the night sweats was my body on over drive trying to get this bs out of me to only not be able to.still going on not as bad
  8. I have been dealing with a inflamed urethra for of two months now. I had my first ob and the sores have healed but this has not much just being able to pee somewhat normal. I can feel it very much all day and at this moment.its called Urethritis and when I went to to urologist and told him my issues and that I felt it was from H he should of known of this being my symptoms are spot on"irritation and inflammation in the urethra.Itching and burning near opening of the penis.it is caused by viruses HSV,HPV,and Cytomegalovirus.How could a professional just wave me off and not even have a clue? How do I get a doc to give me meds when I have no sores.For the cervix my wife is having that issue and the first STI they list is herpes. She has been told by two family practitioners that it's not H just by them looking at it no blood test or swob i just feel there both off.She has a lil blisters that have not changed in six weeks those docs said it was hemangioma? They look nothing like that to me.Cervix inflammation is called cervicitis and this is one thing that stuck out.The STI that frequently cause the condition can damage the reproductive system over time. For this any symptom of Urethritis/ Cervicitis should be brought to physician ASAP. Please let me know if any of you have had this happen.
  9. What other std could be causing this.doesn't it add up with me having a sore on my penis and week later her getting spots. It was never cultured it could be something else? With H1 being pos and all the tingling every day with other H symptoms.urologist was no help just saying wait it out if it's getting better.meaning being able to pee. What else could I have passed to her?I read that blisters can last this long.
  10. Got her in to health dep this morning. Said it was not herpes,she has BV her cervix is inflamed they did Pap smear and now all we can do is wait. She told her to get appointment at obgyn. Said that inflammation did look like cause from std to be inflamed told her it could be all kinds of things and could be be something cancer or something that they did not test me for being I was out of country?pretty much just scared the shit out if both of us all over.i talked to hotline and they said BV and herpes left untreated can cause cervix to be red and inflamed.They said it doesn't look like herpes .wtf. I am freaking TF out bad all the feelings of the biggest pos on earth are back 10 fold.that I still could of given her something that could kill her. It's just to much
  11. I told my mom last night all the life that made me the person I was just feels gone.I know most of it comes from how I feel as a father and Husband. Even if I did get this from her or sometime back doesn't matter hsv1. I was not faithful to my family and this what happened and then giving to my wife tops it off and now both of us constantly having to worry about somehow passing it to daughter I know that most likely won't happen but still on are mind.this turned from the happiest time of my life to the lowest that's really what kills me when I should be nothing but smiles with this heathy lil girl.the physical part has been real hard to from begging I could tell my body was not right and now I feel like many of you and don't know myself in own body. Constantly looking at myself thinking every lil spot around mouth and face is h.thinking of when we do end up having sex we will have to run to the bathroom and shower it off.All of it has taken toll on mind body and Heath don't think I have eaten right cent I found out smoking way more and can feel that killing me I really want to stop so one good thing can come of this. Just had to vent go to urologist today hope he can help?
  12. No they have not broke open or changed in any way. I have read up on it some pretty sure that's what it is?from the discharge to the location of the bumps.inner labia that's what is helping them not to change. I have seen where other people had same thing going on for month or two and it end up being H. We are waiting on call back from obgyn they are very busy office.hope she can get a appointment they don't take walk ins and you have to have app to be seen at Heath dept. crazy
  13. Yep I sure did came back clean.i have pretty much boiled it down to only possible to be H and on top of her uti.i read that can have yellowish discharge with Oder at first was light greenish and the other day it was yellowish.also where her blisters are inner labia can prohibit them from changing?this is all info I found with blogs and actual people had same thing going on. The h is messing with the natural PH of her body the discharge trying to clean itself out.So messed up how this can make so many problems.my lifestyle has change for the worse not able to do normal exercise from the irritation at tip of penis. Hope I get some kind of relief tomorrow.
  14. Yea I plan on it!you said you also have nerve irritation.Has it effected your UT at all? Friday can't come fast enough have appointment with urologist not sure what he can do I hope something.it has just felt constantly irritated and sensitive skin.Took a bath and started flowing that has been going cents OB at first it was real messed up figured from nerves and not drinking enough.now I'm able to pee just the irritation and feels like retention. Sucks bad to say the least.Heath dep dipped my pee last time and it was clear of bacteria ? Told me to take Advil.Also I ask if or how this could be herpes doing this. Said yes post herpetic pain something.take Advil! It should go away.then few days ago came across the PHN mainly from shingles as you said but tons of people reporting it in HSV.
  15. Nice how long did you wait from possible exposure? I had same results like 3 weeks out and same at 8 weeks.im pretty sure I have had H1 for awhile with a pos 5.00. Just trying to rule out H2 I will go again in few months?
  16. I just seen some info that said if need take sterile needle and deroof the blister.One girl at Heath department said she would open if need be but she didn't go then.Most say for best result from swab needs to be ASAP so they would probably be false negative just being old blood in them. I have look at them up close and look nothing like what that doc said. Must of said first thing that he could think of nonsexual?
  17. That was the first time she was ever examined and they don't deal with std on daily basis.we have no planned parenthood in are area and you have to make appointment for std same day your seen at Heath dep? They also have a doc out with someone sick in family so there backed up and you can't be seen without one "no walk ins".I hope if she is there at 7:45 Friday she can just be seen then.she is waiting on call back for appointment with obgyn.
  18. Have hsv1 also but Im a male.have had constant irritation and feelings of possible OB but nothing comes up.i have the weirdest thing when I pee it looks to turn red where I had my OB on penis head very scary hoping that goes away soon! My wife has three blisters as you said you did on inner labia and was told today by walk in clinic it was not H but I really feel it is.did your ob last long time or stay same she is going on six weeks and no change the only thing that I can think is it stays moist down there and there just not changing but thats not common from what I have seen on here?this what doc said there not itching,tingling,painful,oozing-opening it's not herpes.thats what reg doc knows about this virus.pretty sad.she was also there trying to get uti figured out.
  19. We'll she got back in to the walk in they changed up her antibiotics and the doc that seen her said it was not H it was Hemangioma.they must have no clue it does not look like that at all? The doc was saying you have no itching,tingling the sores are not painful there not busting or oozing it's not herpes that's what he said?they test for BV and a few other things did not even try and culture the spots looked in cervix no spots in there or anything just discharge they swab that and sent it off with urine so I guess it was not a failure visit. Just can't rap my head around him telling her it's not H. She told him what happened with me and my sores with my blood test being pos for H1.He at least new you could get it down there he was in 50s and seemed to not think it was H def going to get another opinion.
  20. Thanks she just told me it's a $500 co pay if go to ER.come to find out walk in didn't send It to lab to find what bacteria was the cause.she has been taking my leftover antivirals for some time taking half pill few a day and now she is taking hole one worried about breast milk.the blisters have not changed one bit.she waited to be seen at first with no pain and didn't want to take pills now she wants to been seen and is not able to get in anywhere. Guess I will have her go and insisted they diagnose her so she can get more antivirals- antibiotics for the issues.
  21. Has anyone had trouble clearing up a uti when having OB.my wife went to walk in few days back and still has not got much better.We are trying to get her to obgyn but with work and no one calling back?They wouldn't even look at her blisters saying it will just go away only bumps and were more worried with Uti? She said she feels some better but still burning and swollen they have not told her what Bactria caused this.i have seen you guys say uti on top of H is very painful.Really just want to know if H ever makes them hard to clear up.she will not take bath to sooth her pain because she read you can't take bath with uti?dancer you told someone else that the bumps don't hang around that long?hers have been there for six weeks and not changed? She has went to Heath dep last two days and not able to get appointment.
  22. This is exactly how I have been feeling down there with no sores.This type of neuralgia is the result of the virus irritating the nerves and neural pathways.Symptoms similar to prodrome include tingling,burning sensations,shooting pains,numbness,or aches in the area of infection.all the blogs i saw were very similar to myself.i have had all constant.I can't take this feeling for a months, years I'm about to go crazy thinking that is even possible.i am not able to be normal self in pain Im always in bad mood with my wife in pain just ripping us apart.she wanted to be seen today by Heath department or gyn but was not able to get in.i have always stayed away from pills really don't like to get them down.now I fear that I'm going to have to take painkiller just to get by.
  23. Thanks again we have not tried to have sex at all in some time it is really pulling us apart.we have not wanted to try scared of making more spots plus don't want her in any more pain now with uti it's just been out of ? for almost 2 months. How can it be considered just a skin condition this has put a huge wall in our lives? Its gotta get better soon
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