List the ways to protect my partner from getting herpes (hsv2)?

[Angelwings]

I directed my partner to this website but I have yet to feel comfortable. Please list all things that will prevent him from catching this disease yet pleasure him. All creative things

 

1. Ex: condoms and taking medicine

2. Oral sex only

3 hand jobs?

 

[MMissouri]

I looked this up online and here are some suggestions:

Dry humping (outercourse, whatever term they use these days)- one site suggested doing this in public to spice it up.

Dirty talk, erotic stories, phone sex

Massages

Role playing

Bathing together

Mutual masterbation/toys

Breast sex (I hesitate to use the term I normally do lol)

Hope that helps! Have fun :)

[Angelwings]

Thank you! I love the ideas! Especially breast sex! Lol... I need more.

[WCSDancer2010]

Tantric sex is another option ... there are places that you can go to learn the techniques and it's meant to be VERY hot!

 

One of the best things about H is it gives us an excuse to learn other ways to get our freak on ;)

 

http://herpeslife.com/keeping-your-partner-herpes-free-can-be-super-sexy/

[whitedaisies]

You can also use a vibrator against r cheek while performing oral sex on him...it's supposed to be very satisfying for the man. Haven't tried it yet.

 

A really intense make out session is always fun

 

Teasing is really good. It builds anticipation so the next time you have sex, it builds intensity

 

Lots of fun role play ideas

 

Taking a shower together can be really fun

 

I think u are a woman....how about doing a strip tease for him

 

Changing locations and doing the same things can really spice things up....ie I once had a really intense make out session in the back of a cab lol,

 

Man... I need to find a partner!!!!

[Angelwings]

Thank you ladies! Hearing all of these exciting options really motivates me to live extraordinary! i will look into tantric sex and yes, I agree a strip tease would be appropriate! Awesome ideas!

[whitedaisies]

Have fun!!!!

 

If you think of any others come back and post on here....always open to new ideas.

 

 

[whitedaisies]

Ask him if he has any fetishes?

 

U can always spice it up w costumes and sexy lingerie is obvious

 

Sexting w pics to build anticipation is great

 

It would be good toget a mans opinion on this.......

 

[Sil88]

I'm curious about the vibrator on cheek.. If it amplifies the buzzing noise it might just be funny though.

 

How about him wearing tight boxers to minimise the contact area.. Even though it kills some intimacy.

 

S&M? Lace gloves? Mix massage idea with soap foam or oils.

 

Lol @ breast sex btw :p

[whitedaisies]

Lol u can get vibrators that are quite quiet but it's is supposed to be very satisfying.

[WCSDancer2010]

Or you can hum ... your vocal cords are a natural vibrator ... LOL

 

- some people are into hot wax... make sure you buy the candles that are MADE for sex tho - they burn at a lower temp...

 

OOOhhhh.. and food sex... putting chocolate sauce, whipped cream, whatever on your partner and lick it off ... YUM :)

[ihaveittoo]

Male perspective. ..

 

I turn 48 in three weeks...I've obviously have lived a very sheltered sex life. Did do the whipped cream. Problem is I'm way too hairy for it to be enjoyable for the wife. (If you know who Ron Jeremy is, I am as hairy if not more so)

 

Ladies...if you can sqeeze your mans penis with your vagina, I mean really clamp down hard, he'll be a real happy camper. The best thing I've ever experienced. Not really sure if that is a common ability, but it is a great one to have.

[whitedaisies]

Sometimes this site drives me crazy....herpes naturally has us talking about sex ugh but I ain't getting any!!!!!!

[whitedaisies]

Oh dancer that reminds me of a Seinfeld episode where George tried to perform the trifecta of sex...eating his favourite sandwich....listening to a football game and having sex lol

 

Hysterical episode....

[WCSDancer2010]

@ihaveittoo

 

the OP was looking for "safe" (ie, non-inserting) ways to pleasure her man because she's still dealing with the worry of transmitting to him ;)

 

Oh - and Ihave one word for hairy men... manscaping.... I know some women like hairy men but I for one don't want to floss my teeth during sex play :p

[whitedaisies]

Lmao

[ihaveittoo]

@WCSDancer2010,

 

Oops, with all the talk about breast sex, lingerie and food I got carried away. Whew, finally caught my breath!

 

Manscapng? Probably not. My great×5 grandfather was a silverback gorilla and the genes bred through to me. I'd have to spend a fortune on razers, enough to support the steel industry. Are there spas that do painless hair removal? Not that duct tape method? Thats the only way I would consider it.

[whitedaisies]

Use a beard trimmer at the lowest setting.

 

 

[Angelwings]

Lol@Whitedaisies, sometimes this site drives me crazy...

 

Yes,just reading all of the ideas are so arousing! This is definitely a great way to ensure i don't transmit it to him.

 

Cooking dinner naked with heels was just his beginning!

 

thanks again all because I have so much more to do!

[whitedaisies]

Have fun sweetie!!!!

 

 

[seeker]

um, if your worried about passing it vaginally you could also try anal. still have penetration but not in the area of OBs ( I assume). not for everyone I know, probably the stigma. ( seewutididthere)

[MMissouri]

(Iseewhatudid) lol

[WCSDancer2010]

I was expecting @seeker to repond on here that he was "overcome" by all the sex talk on this thread ... LOL

 

#yeahIwentthere

[seeker]

Overcome, interesting choice of words. Dont think my back could handle it.

[Angelwings]

Wow, not sure I need to experience anal but interesting... So you can't pass it if you're having anal sex?