Alisonbr

Ok so I started dating my new boyfriend around five months ago . It’s beeb about two months now since we first had sex . We both we to our doctors and aske for all std testing all cane back negitive . Three days after I know something was wrong which really pisses me off consider I’ve only been with two other guys my ex boyfriends it anyways turns out std testing doesn’t usually included herpes and he had no idea he had it. He never had an outbreak but I did three days after. Anyways I was on my period so we did anal. Since this we have kind of been on a break we’re still talking and I know he didn’t know but I’m not sure if I can not resent him for it . I already had a second outbreak . My real question is all my sores which are painful have been around my anus .so I was thinking if we did resume our relationship so I want to risk getting sore around my vaginal .it already sucks that I’ve gotten it twice now around my anus or is that just a fluke . Even if I don’t resume out relationship. An I bet them in my vagina?

What carrier oil do you use?

Mine didn’t even have a number . Both igg were negitive and the igm just said reactive

What vitamins help keep ob’s down and other symptoms as well.

Ig I was hoping the swab was a false positive and the HSV ab reactive could be too . What does that even mean . I thought it was either a positive or negative

Why do some people take them all the time? Why do some chose not to take them all the time ? Side effects of taking them or not taking them? Taking them only during outbreaks or just never? What alternative meds/ vitamins help someone with herpes symptoms and to keep it at bay ....

Gonna attach my test results please tell me what you think . Do I have herpes , for sure???

Wait a few weeks and get tested again

From my recent research pcr are preety accurate but only if your sore is open and hadn’t started healing already & a positive igg means you’ve had herpes for awhile and negitive igm confirms it wasn’t a recent exposure.

That’s great . It gives me hope . Our stituation is very similar. He has no symptoms and had no idea but me I felt it two days later and my outbreak was two weeks and now in week 3 with no pain down there but major fatigue.

Are you still with your bf ? I’m kind of on a break rn . Trying to figure out if o can truly move past this and not deep down resent him.

Thank you so much . I think it should be , I know personally my sexual habits will become even safer and I truly believe that he would of changed his as well and would have taken antivirals to protect me . He actually wanted to kill himself when I told him that he gave me hsv2 . He has major guilt.

I had a swab at two weeks and they gave me a blood test to see if it was a recent exposure and my doc said it was a recent exposure

It didn’t say . It just said it was positive . What’s igg exactly?

Walgreens has this cream called rectalcare and I used it on vag and buttocks and it really helped .its 5% lidocaine

Mine came back positive only two weeks after exposure. So I think your good .

Love this post . Ok I was diagnosed two weeks ago and I was wondering can you still have oral if your not in an outbreak? Did you and your ex ? If you don’t mind me asking otherwise feel free to not any. Also I was exposed / infected sept.29th and my sores are all gone but I feel super doper fatigued . Is that related or no ? Is it permanent or am I still in an outbreak?

I was diagnosed oct. 13th & I’m am devastated as well and self blaming too . I’m here for you

So I recently started dating this guy who is buddies with my step dad . He and I both recently asked for all std testing . Both of ours came back negitive . No surprise to me . I’ve only been with my two ex bf’s and got tested about six months after both Relationships before I entered another relationship. I have access to my most recent test on chart online and went back and looked and since when is herpes not apart of std testing ? I was tested for everything but and I’m wondering if they did the same to him. I know I didn’t have it because after I had sex with my new boyfriend I could feel something was wrong just 2-3 days later . So I went in and found out I have genital herpes and they did a blood test to see if it was a previous or recent exposure. It was recent !!! He swears up and down that he had no idea and had no symptoms and his recent std testing all case back negitive . So I wonder if his std testing didn’t include herpes like mine ? Anyone else have this ? He swears he hadn’t been with anyone since before the testing. Also my outbreak went away after 3 weeks but I’m feeling sick , tired,fatigued, low energy. Just completely drained . Is this from the herpes? Is it permanent or am I still in outbreak? Prior to this I’ve always had a low immune system . I have some other medical conditions like fibromyalgia, low iron, chronic pain, migraines, arthritis.