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Have this phone call every week as in hes calling different people to tell them about it

He gave you oral herpes from the rape ?

I was seeing/talking to a guy for nearly 3 weeks, the first date we went to dinner , second we drove around, third we was at his house and we were watching tv and he started kissing me and my breast I was enjoying it but that part of me that wanted to just say stop and disclosed all I kept thinking is I need to start this with honesty so I said , I need to tell u something, last year I found out I carried hsv 2 he didn’t know what it was so I told him and he said oh I have herpes in my mouth, I explained the risks to him, he then said he was in a relationship with a woman that had it and he never got it from her , he didn’t really care about it he wanted to have sex right then and there too bad I was on my period but I’m starting to realize people don’t really care about this damn virus

That’s so weird !!, and u never had sex with anybody else not even foreplay ? Because that’s almost impossible

Well at least your husband doesn’t care about it he knows it’s nothing and not a big deal and I felt like that too every morning I would wake up and think damn I have herpes , that soon went away when I started focusing on stuff I had to do and then I had death in my family so that took the attention of that but definitely just keep yourself busy I know the feeling it’s been a year of me knowing about this and I’m getting better everyday the only thing that bother me is the person that gave it to me and future disclosures I’m only 22 and I have to date with herpes ..

Wow that was beautiful regular guy loved your comment

And you definitely should have used a condom with him young lady , U don’t know if he have anything that u don’t have you have to protect yourself as well just as your protecting him

Why is he even interested in having sex with. 20 year old , I understand his frustration because honestly I had that type of mindset with whomever gave it to me but idk who gave it to me sadly, and that’s on him because he had unprotected sex with you and never questioned you about STDs or HIV so he was irresponsible as well

One thing I would say is, he feel bad that he’s rejecting you, the stigma and the thought of him possibly catching it is more strong than pursuing you, he probaly her cold sores already he should get a test don’t and if he carry it then it’s nlthing To transmit , I wouldn’t him a jerk but I would tell him he’s gonna run into to it again sooner or later and that’s promised

I always thought it was funny how people jump and say someone might have herpes or whatever like how he said the girl went to the e.r because she thought she had a yeast infection but saw bumps must be herpes like... HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT? It sound like people have experiences with it that’s why they reference it I don’t know if it’s me being oblivious but herpes wouldn’t be the first thing to come to mind if I heard that about someone

You gonna be fine u can still be a doctor it doesn’t affect that , my doctor that diagnosed me told me she had it

Wow jdh your comment made me smile , reminds me of my doctor that disclosed she had it and I couldn’t believe it

Don’t terminate your pregnancy over this , you won’t forgive yourself ,carry on as if u didn’t find out about it , I know my doctor said if I have a child when it’s Closer to the due date I’ll be given valtrex to take to be on the safe side and where did your baby get the ob ?

Woah , your not contagious all he time, if that’s the case everyone will have herpes , and condoms don’t prevent it completely she already said 2 things that’s not completely correct the only thing she seem to get correct is that it’s a common std

Yeah I was about to say the same thing hsv don’t effect that he’s either scared and don’t know how to tell u this or he don’t know what he’s saying

I know the feeling I understand I know when I burn or feel irritated down there I take a bath with epsom salt and it rub coconut oil down there and it relieves it

First I understand your pain and frustration with this, I had one horrible ob 4 months from a possible partner don’t know who gave it to me have had that type of ob again I do get burning like sensations sometimes but other than that nothing thank you GOD! This is why my doctor advised me not to tell people because of that it’s not their business to know your business , but it has to be your ex fiancé because u didn’t have antibodies and he was the last person u had sex with till eventually he antibodies showed up

It couldve it can appear anywhere on the face, it’s soo annoying mind come right underneath my nose I wish I was one of the luckier ones that didn’t get a horrible ob I did and then on top of that months possibly years after catching it

Like inside your vagina ? When I’m stressed out I get burning sensations on my vagina

Okay, just take a deep breath and relax like literally breathe in all the air you can then exhale about 3-5 times , I have hsv 1 & 2 I didn’t care not one bit of getting cold sores cus I barely ever got them, but the first ob I had of hsv 2 is the worst because literally a year ago I got my first ob and it was horrible couldn’t walk for 2 weeks so at least I didn’t go through that I’m upset this happened to me too like We have a right to be upset about this but don’t be upset or angry with yourself you didn’t ask for this to happen to you.. I didn’t ask for this to happen to me I’m only 22 and have to live with knowing this it hurts but there’s so much worse things that can happen to us I thank god I don’t have hiv , I never had a std before this happened to me I couldn’t believe it I had the ob 4 months from possibly catching it , and I will never know who gave it to me .. god works mysterious ways don’t he , but it don’t even matter who gave it to me I know I need to make better decisions with who I give my body too and that’s what I want to do for now on just know there’s millions of women and men in your shoes and we all made decisions we regret

But u do know herpes doesn’t physically harm u at all ? It just harms your mental state I will say that for sure , I know your pain I was upset for a very long time depressed and angry

Dying from herpes ???? Are u serious right now ? I hope you were joking

Aww happy birthday enjoy it live it up darling , please ditch his ass

But yes good riddance my dear !!

6 kids 3 moms????? Omg yes I rather have herpes than one kid and a man I didn’t end of being with , he probaly have herpes my goodness , unprotected sex with 3 different women that’s probaly seen different men as well 1 in 4 women has hsv so yeah he might have it too I don’t care what anybody say anymore unless I see a negative his result under their name I don’t believe their non nsense