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To make u feel better after my post ob I had the itching problem went to the doctor she did a pcr swab when it was itching it came back negative for both types

And the doctor is not gonna give you anything if there's nothing to treat, they just gonna tell u a lot of their patients have it and it's not life threatening or a serious condition.

Doctors honestly don't care about herpes that's why they never test for it, my doctor told me she doesn't test for it because it's a non issue if the patient doesn't know I was 21 when I found out im 22 now I know the feeling trust me being so young to have this but I promise u it does get better, I found out because I had a full on ob out the blue ,got it w a condom I'm like 99% sure of that, I have hsv 1&2 never gave my ex either strain, I wish I found out the way u did , I'm one of the unlucky ones that got the worst of the worst outbreak months possibly years after catching it, private message me if you wanna talk more

Yeah I have my good and bad days when it comes to this thing, did you get the sores inside your vagina you said ?

No I'm saying the last partner that could have given it to me was 4 months prior before the worst full on ob it don't have to be him but I pretty sure it was because of the severity

I had hsv1 for a long time before I was sexually active and my mom got cold sores a lot so I probably got it from her but last year April I got a full on ob of hsv 2 4 months from a possible partner it was the worst of the worst ob, and when my results came back I had antibodies for both hsv 1 I wasent surprised that would come back positive but I was shocked at 2 so I could of caught it 4 months ago or had it for years and didn't know. It I know I didn't give it to my ex because he came back negative for both

Last year around April I got a full on outbreak couldn't walk for 2 weeks, 2 days after sex w my ex so I fought it was him since it was so severe he came back negative the last person I was w. Was 4months a good if it was even him it took 4 months for this to happen I didn't even get a symptom of it before that

Yeah that means it's a new infection no antibodies positive Swab is new infection

I wish there was a law like that in NY

It sound like a yeast infection honestly I use to get them frequently when I had sex w my ex and this was way before I caught g.h

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Wow, I never heard of it being in a spot like that, my doctor make it seem like hsv 2 is always genital or below the waste

Some people may have hsv carried out from their vaginal secretions or semen but Hsv is not in it like gonorhea clamidya or HIV, like if you have unprotected sex with someone that's having ob you might get the lesions on the inside of your vagina and she's from their from time to time, my doctor said where the lesion shows up that's where the virus entered at

Herpes is not in body fluids, if he wants to protect himself and sleep with underwear on that's on him but he's gonna run into more women that has hsv 2 that won't know they have or won't even tell him him and he's only gonna use a condom probably but, it's just casual sex then I would just role w the punches of this is someone I want to be in a relationship w just forget it but, herpes doesn't come from semen and vaginal juices , it's really where the OB showed in the skin and nerves

Good response regular guy, I feel the same way because when I went through my first initial OB out of the blue , I felt violated like somebody had to pay for this , not really about a vengeance but the only problem is I don't know who gave it to me , I'd like to say it was the last guy I was seeing but it doesn't mean it was him, , I never cared about having hsv 1 it was hsv 2 I was upset about , with that being said, I understand where your coming from , people just running around having sex and not disclosing their status is horrible people, and just because u do have unprotected sex with someone doesn't mean u want their disease which disclosure could have came in and you could protect yourself a little more, even tho u can still get this with a condom (how I got it) people should disclose if can't don't have sex.. totally understand what u mean tho

Before you start saying she was in the wrong , the man she was seeing wanted to have unprotected sex with no condom before she disclosed, he didn't question STDs and even HIV for god sakes , so that's on him as well, but yes always disclose because that's why half the reason we all here for

Well look into your results to see if you even have it and see the type, I know how u felt I was 21 when I found out of nowhere I'm 22 I'm pretty sure I contracted it when I was 20 or 19, I said the same thing why I didn't be more careful why did the damn hospital never tested me for hsv, WHY WHY WHY , I wish I can go back , I would say this over and over in my head every day since my diagnosis, but u don't have to look at this like a "lifelongdisease" my doctor simply told me it's like a common cold virus even less harmless than a common cold virus , we all have common cold viruses and that's not curable hsv is pretty much the same , you just have to have below the waist contact w someone to get it, it's literally a chicken pox virus pretty much , and life is too short to stress of hsv , there's so many people with other problems health problems that wish they can trade it for hsv , genital herpes is more common than diabetes and diabetes is common, justknow I understand how u feel and u not alone

I wish growing up in middle and high school that sex Ed wouldn't make it seem like condoms protect you against all std and pregnancy and it's the safest thing in the world Yes I understand that condoms do break (never happened to me) but I wish they stop making it seem condoms do protect u from everything , going through this I just found out u can even get syphillis with a condom as well, half the reason I'm here is because I thought condoms protect u from this "std" Maybe they should design a different type of condom that covers he major areas like above the penis and vagina and protect u from hsv a lot more , because obviously a condom is nowhere enough , but sex Ed need to be changed

Wow your post touched me , I relate to u in so many ways

True too 20plus , I just feel sometimes some people do take it over board with the lawsuits especially when you have unprotected sex without seeing any type of paper work , other than that, I just feel like people would be more scared to have sex with out disclosing if they see people start suing people over these things , if I had the opportunity of knowing who gave it to me then Idk what the hell I would do honestly I would be too upset to even think about including a court and suing them I probably would have took the law into my own hands honestly ...

Wow these are really good thoughts and methods, i understand that the whole self inflicting thing as well sometimes I feel I am doing the same thing

What was your break through to snap out of it? to no longer let hsv break you? I'm curious to know how various people moved on from it weather it was spiritual, life quotes or even meeting someone what was it ?

My doctor said you can't get hsv 2 orally it's pretty impossible it's only below the waist contact

Pass it to his daughter ? The only way if it's sexual contact... soo u probably need to educate him more

First, I'm so sorry that happened to you, I got a outbreak of hsv months possibly years after I caught it, it was soo painful it was unbearable I know but once it heal, you'll be back to yourself it feels like ya life is over but I'm assuring it's not I was there I was 21 when I was diagnosed, I was soo scared, but it took me time to heal I focused on myself got my schooling back together and doing better than ever, try to find out what strain it is as well, but your not alone, there's so many people that are in our shoes and are doing fine