Lifegoesonn

Yess do all of that just main thing I hear a lot is keeping your immune system strong as we all should anyways

My doctor said the area where u the virus enters is where it shows up at and, not not your whole penis will be contagious as the area where u caught it at because the virus will rather travel through the same nerve it entered at it won’t just dramatically go through another nerve even though possible it won’t I only know because I been getting cold sores for years and it always ALWAYS ALWAYS show at the same spot and I only had one ob of hsv 2 I understand why it showed above to the side of my clit cus I got it w a condom your fine don’t be too worried

It could be he just transmitted it to you all the sexual encounters before he wasent shedding and the virus was asleep in his system but it could be the last sexual encounter was when he transmitted it

I resent my whole past honestly and I wouldn’t be so upset if it was from like a husband or a boyfriend

Crazy cuz my ex is 39 and he told me he been with too many women than he could count never had a std before (as far as I know) but he don’t have hsv 1 or 2 because I seen his paperwork since I was accusing him and he didn’t even have it, surprisingly he doesn’t have either ,so it’s not about being safe and doing the right thing or even making someone get tested before u engage in any sexual activity with them it’s about being lucky that’s all and if that guy don’t even have it in the first place he’s just lucky like my whore of a ex is, and he’s immature for his age , I bet he didn’t even see his own hsv paperwork smh

You right !!

How old is he if u don’t mind me asking

Wow you handled that well you said all the right things , then he has the nerve to say he make every girl get tested before having protected sex with them ? -_- no man walking this earth does that I personally know people who run out and take somebody word for it that they don’t have anything and go raw and don’t get tested till years later to make sure they good and they don’t test for herpes so he didn’t see those results

Yeah I get the whole ordeal about the incurable thing , that’s why I’m still upset till this day because some ass hole didn’t disclose to me now I feel like I have a piece of them for the rest of my life

I’ve gotten better since finding out about this ,in 2 weeks it will make a year since having that horrendous ob that led me to find out I was a carrier of hsv 2 but I still can’t help the fact that I don’t know who gave this to me like I can’t fully move on without that closure of the person knew or not and just to at least say to someone look u caused this to me please don’t cause this to someone else , I can’t close this chapter of this emotional roller coaster in my life without knowing but 90% of my sexual interactions was with condoms it can literally be anybody and then idk how to confront them about it either ... like when I meet someone new and disclose to them I’m not even gonna be able to tell them who I got it from then I’m gonna look like a whore... been on my mind lately

Wow that’s crazy trying2accept, I have the full blown ob 4 months from possibly catching it so I don’t know when I picked it up

Yeah it sounds like it’s recent like trying2accept said and did you use condoms with the guy? Also he probaly caughtbit recently that’s why his test came back negative he didn’t build antibodies as well

Got it with a condom so don’t feel too bad

Yeah I was ignorant to think a condom will always protect me and that this was only transmitted with symptoms

I know soap kills the virus just always wash your hands before you touch them in their private areas as for your husband he probaly have it already 80% of adults have hsv 1

Me too only one because I thought it was the last man I slept with but he didn’t even have itb

First breath, you disclosed that’s the point of disclosure u did the right thing the second woman told u to not use condoms and lay off The medication and she knew the risks , I got hsv with a condom as well , I know if you build your immune system up it’s fights the virus better so eat immune system boosting foods like yogurt the shedding suppose to be less over the years as well

I get where u coming from but my thing is somebody can say they don’t have it all they want but unless I see a negative result under their name and the place they got the test from I assume they have it point blank period aftrr finding out I had This thAts how I treat it because they don’t test for herpes unless u ask for it so I’m not hearing none of the B.S I don’t have it I got tested

But don’t do it , not worth it he gonna run into somebody that will ruin his life at the rate he going he too old for that smh

It might make it worse, then again he needs to know that it’s not okay what hhe did and Scarr the shot out of him

Wow I can imagine your pain , and just to put it out there he could of had it first and gave it to you , i wish I found out the way u did I found out from having a full on ob

That’s a little weird I think he’s afraid to find out the truth

They not , they will tell u it’s common a lot of their patients have it (which is true) and that it doesn’t harm and it’s nlthing to worry about my gynos literally told me that and gave me that like you good off you go type of convo after

Exactly I didn’t know for at least 4 months that I had it , it’s the knowing that’s scares him he rather be w someone that don’t know if they have it crazy right ?

Yeah I understand we need a man that won’t think twice about this because they confident enough and love us enough to be with us and even if you have to educate people about it that’s all it should take and if they can’t handle it so be it , I know whoever I end up with I don’t need them feeling scared about it but that’s on him he’s not educated on how this spread and how people get It and it’s not a big deal if he feel scared about this he need to make sure whom ever he has sex wIt’s in the future get tested for everything including this and most likely they will have one of the strains either orally or genitally and if he’s still afraid he needs to realize his dating pool is very limited there’s more people that have a herpes virus than don’t have one