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Wait no, your life is not over I felt like that too thinking my life is over and it’s far from it takes a little time to heal from it but you will resize its really not a big deal yes it’s unfortunate u got it at a young age just like I did and millions of people do but u don’t have to feel that way it’s up to you to be happy and not feel like your life is over

Doctors don’t care about herpes because they know it’s not a “real” health issue, I got Tested For hiv and STDs every year and never knew I was not tested for herpes till I got a ob then they tested me for it cause I had symptoms already had antibodies so u won’t get much information from he doctor About it

Yess just take it easy, maybe it’s more Mental with him than physical I don’t think he’s exactly afraid of having it I think it’s the whole thought of u having it when it’s really a non issue and him possibly catching it, u don’t need to have someone That’s scared , either u keep educating him and he loves you enough to not care about this silly virus or move on

Wow smh, what a asshole , how old is he ? And u def in a position to sue If u wanted to buy it’s not worth it , I got it with a condom so it don’t even matter to

I was 21 when I found out I’m 22 now, I felt the same way u felt like somebody robbed me of My best years in life can’t even go my 20s w out stress I gotten better about it I realized everything happens for a reason, thank god it’s not hiv, there’s people walking around w hiv so practice safe, my situation is I got it with a condom how annoying is that I did the right thing and got it so it’s definitly inevitable , you’ll get better with it may I ask which one u have ?

Wow reading this made me sick to my stomach, he’s a such a bastard , he’ll burn in hell for what he did, did he use condoms with you ?

Yes it’s definitely a overwhelming topic to others who have no experience with it, try to be patient with him and educate him and y’all will be fine, he should get tested for both before he feel like he has to reject u which he should have to do that to decide, you sound like a smart woman , you will be fine

Omg I needed to read this post, you absolutely right because I have no idea who gave this to me and I wanna ask my partners but idk if they would be honest or actually get tested to see

My doctor said it could take years to show up , did u get the blood test done to see if you had antibodies for it? My situation is almost similar I got a full on ob couldn’t walk for 2 weeks 4 months from possibly catching it, thought it was my ex because we had slept together a couple days before and he came back negative for both

Him having oral herpes hsv 1 doesn’t make him unclean! I hate the word “clean” most people will come back positive for hsv 1 it’s too common, and there’s no magic number till u run into a std , it’s always out there my ex had sex with tons of women probaly over 100, and he doesn’t have hsv 1 or 2 and I never have it to him, it’s about being lucky really

First of all, you DISCLOSED , he knew the risks so for him to act this way because he caught it is crazy, so don’t feel bad, give him time let him process it then hear him out then move on ..

I know how you feel, I was only 21 when I was diagnosed its very common , if u have ghsv pretty much the whole population has that one and ghsv 2 is common too, and things will get better sweety

I'm confused you said u was tested for everything including herpes and everything came back negative, but you said u always got cold sores for years so hsv 1 would come back positive you know ?

Is he rejecting you over both ? Or hsv 2 alone ? Because if he's rejecting u over hsv 1 he's crazy because the next chick he run into will have hsv 1 and he probaly already have it unless he got tested and saw his own paperwork and they don't test for hsv

I have both and no it's not, they literally A good percentage of the same virus some people have both viruses below the waist and 80% of the population has hsv 1 oral herpes I see people with cold sores at work every day,and genital herpes is growing crazy even more than oral Because I believe it's 30% of genital herpes is coming from hsv 1

I understand how u feel ! Please tell me u live in NY ! I know the anger u feeling I have hsv 2 which always genital, I would have felt a little better if it was hsv 1 since 80% of the population has that one which I already acquired orally , I didn't get it from a boyfriend o got it from casual sex which pisses me off even more there's people that have both strains genital but u gonna be fine I know u got to get over the initial shock I'm still not over the shock but u got it from Your husband, not a random guy, this Man U love and spending the rest of your life with

That's amazing congrats on the engagement and the baby :)

and you sound like a nice girl , always be safe protect yourself

I was just like you I probaly got cold sores way before I was sexually active, and I didn't know it was herpes related I always saw people getting cold sores didn't know what it was my mom got cold sores I probaly got it from her, but about 80% of the population get colds sores that's why we don't realize it's herpes related and trust me nobody cares about this I DONT CARE about it , hsv 2 it pretty much cold sores below the waist but can be oral as well just rare,honestly that guy sound like a douche bag , I can understand being a little frustrated but he's taking it over board , I would leave him alone if I was you he sound immature and wreckless

Oh okay I should have read it more harder, but that I didn't do my research about but it's probably best to talk directly to a doctor about that, because I know everything a mother eats kind of go through breast milk but I always read that valtrex is safe to take during pregnancy but definitely speak to doctor to be on the safe side , because even if a little passed it wouldn't harm your baby or even be enough to pass but be safe talk to doctor , congrats on your new baby by the way, it's a blessing to be able to have kids

Sorry for what you went through , when I had my ob of hsv 2 genitally my throats was on fire the first 5 days couldn't swallow, couldn't eat it was scary to even think about swallowing, never inspected the back of my throat but it was horrible, I heard from many doctors saying hsv 2 can't be oral only genital like every last one of them said hsv 2 is only genital and you can only have hsv 1 orally and genital , made me think this was impossible

I feel you on the part where you said some people can't move past the part where someone says they have herpes and the whole blindfold thing

But if a woman was to get an OB by her nipple which u don't so you're fine, then she can infect her baby that way and that's only hsv 1 I believe

Umm one thing About this post that urked my soul, HSV is not in breast milk , hsv is not like HIV, HIV is in breast milk that's why hiv+ mothers can't breast feed , idk where You read that at

Wow that's so disgusting, he's a horrible person to have u think that, and didn't even disclose to you, people like that will never get anything good in life..