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At the 13 October I had a cold and hoped that H don't break out because I had my period too and this is a trigger (sure I was egoistic and praid please nooooooooo, I didn't had an OB ) but on the other end we talked with my colleagues about the Ebola infection (which mean probably death) and yes fuck, H is just skin a condition.....I hope the world get better , that we realize what we do to each other and to that world..... this world is crazy.( I SHOULD LESS THINK ABOUT h.)....H is just a little thing ,which disturb our mind and feelings but its just little piece ..sometimes I feel bad to make H ,HPV and Crohn disease just a big deal, it shouldn't be like that...wane find the guide in myself...even it sometimes hard :) but live can be great even with all my problem , even being alone .send you some light .

Hi, I had so much itching in that last years , I Tried short time ago to drink Saliva and Thymine tea together , I drink couple of cups every day and it helped me......Salvia is against sweating, maybe its only in my mind but it helped ,they actually say that salvia helps against sweating......and H mostly break out if you sweat or your immune system is down ..give it a try ...the tea is really cheap

Hi Sam, I don't live in USA (I do live in Spain )but I always like to talk to other people over Skype let me know if you feel like ..... I don't have successful story's about H but I like to listen and talk about H and everything else . Send me a message if you like to speak .Whish you great day

Hi, yes H can go to other part of your body ,even its unusually. In the first 6 month of contraction it possible that it spread to other parts of the body if you not careful(showering, touching etc.). I have herpes 1 (oral ) since I was child and I got H1 genital, the chance of getting it after that long time is by 2 percent......but it can happen. Make a swap and you will see...H goes to your mind ,sometimes you think you have an OB and its only red skin.....make a test.big hug

ok??? sorry always thought swap test means to take culture from a blister ....he only talked about blood test....maybe I always got tat wrong,sorry. anyway good that everything went well :):)enjoy your day , I am sure that you today in a better mood then the last days

Hi, good to hear Frenchman that blood test went well, so lets wait for swap test......as I told you, it don't need to be H, could be everything.....even if its is H its not the end of that world :)big hugs

Hi, well you already disclosed , even its not yet in person. Download the ebook and print it out for him ,that he have all info he need, to let him realize that the risk of infection is quit low. .If he would be that scared , he already would have run off.....I guess probably he liked you in first place and don't mind about H :)Good luck .

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HI Frenchman, I told you yesterday you will not have all your live that feelings . The body will build up antibody's and your body will react in the future differently...give your body a bit more time to deal with that virus, things will change....the mind and the body will change at one point..HUG

Well done, you reacted the best way you could :) but I don't think you can educate people like her, she is just stupid .Anyway you were done good fight for our site:)

Hi, L-lysine is more in fish and white meat not in red meat and yes its good to cut down sugar and carbs. Yes stress can increase Ob and heat do the rest but it will change after a while. My body can deal so much better with sun after two years of H, it get better .just make your live healthier.......eat your veggies :) Yes all of our mummy's were right and find your guide inside, that's the most important.

Hi, yes I have HSV1 one and in the past I had every month several Ob . I do have a cronical disease which put my immune system down ...do you have any disease ? Well H always have different impact on peoples live, some people just get 1 OB a year , some get it once a live and other people get it frequently....its not that fair , is it ? :( . I tried several thing in the past , some thing worked and other didn't. A lot of people swear on L-Lysine, it didn't helped for me but a lot of people have success with it...try it and you will see. My Ob and symptom's only got less just in the last months and I can tell you that I tried a lot of things.( I even acupuncture myself in the private parts ) What changed : I bought myself a juicer (no mixer) and I produce every day my own natural juice (mostly veggies) , it have a lot of vitamins and its really jummy. I try to eat all my veggies completely row because it have more vitamins. I cut down bread and eat every morning just Chia with some yoghurt or rice with fruit because it have a lot of good stuff inside. I do a lot of sport and try to relax as good I can. I eat all my food with Turmeric because its antiviral and healthy. Well I am not sure if this help you because every body react differently but I have several cronical diseases and it helped me , so maybe you can try some of that stuff. Thinks get better ,maybe we will be never the person who just get one OB a Year but we can make live more relaxed.Hope I could give you some ideas what to do.Big hug

Hi, there is a little different between 1 and 2. Version One is less aggressive. usually people get less outbreak's, at least you don't have a chronically sickness, like autoimmune sickness . Version one is much more calm , you have less problems ,that's all. Its the same virus like 2 but version one normally go to the mouth but on the same time it make 50 percent of every new herpes gentiles infection because its more in common......90 percent of every human have it.....so there is a bigger chance you got that , not HSV 2. Its so easy to get it....because every person have it....to be honest , I had HSV 1 nearly all my live and I didn't knew I can transmit it even there is no Outbreak......live happen, why we think we are better, why we thought we cant get it , because we didn't knew it..,,, I didn't knew it .... so lets teach other people . lets ..............lets make it better , lets build up that community........lets make HSV1 or 2 normal like to having headaches.....lets be free.... I wane try .Fechman lets try it , even you maybe you don't have H....if you don't. then go and teach people. Big hug again

:( would love to be there with you guys but I am to far away. I hope you have a incredible time and take a lot out of that weekend. learn more of dealing with H and maybe get some skills to dance the blues. Maybe good I am not there, I am not the best dancer in the world....ENJOY guys :)

Hi Frenchman, welcome to the website, you found the right place to share your story :) . First thing ,only because its burning and its red , it don't mean it have to be Herpes ...there could be a bacterial infection or something else....you don't know that yet. The chance to get HSV 2 by oral sex is much lower then getting version 1 by oral sex....but its possible. Why you think that you have HSV 2 , did the doctors think so or did you Google your symptom's and gave yourself the diagnose?? What kind of test did you made , a blood test or they took a swap from that area. If you only received a blood test it could be that you will get a negative result because it usually needs around 6 month till the body build up antibody's, that's the point it shows if you really have H or not. Even if the results come back positive , its not the end of the world. You still be able to have a loving wife and children. If you really have H you can protect your partner by using condoms and take antivirals , the transmission risk will be only 2-4 percent. Sure at the beginning you feel the whole time destroyed and up sad , we all did at that stage but your body and mind will learn soon to deal with it. You will feel much stronger and comfortable with that situation. BUT BUT BUT you still don't know if its really H , try to relaxed as best you can and if the test is positive , a lot of people on that site will be there for you, they will help you to make it easier...they did the same for me .BIG BIG HUG

HI, I have herpes one and there is a really small risk to transmit it if you don't have any Outbreak.90 percent of every human have herpes 1 , so seriously you can calm down and date whoever you like, The strange thing is that people bother by herpes genitals but nobody bother by oral herpes because every person have it. ...bt its all the same virus .you can tell the person but nobody will reject you for that because its so common. Make only sure you don't kiss anyone anywhere when you have an outbreak, that all. ...You good,HUG

HI, why you need to forgive yourself...for what? Every person in that world can get herpes if you slept with 1 or 100 person. You can get Herpes from your partner which you trust or from protected sex with whoever , doesn't matter. I remember myself in the first two month and I was a completely mess , I was self destroying and completely fucked up but things are changing , even if this needs a long time. I have H now over 2 years and sometimes I still feel bad about it ,sometimes I cry and feel alone but I realized that the healing is in myself and I try to work on that , even I am still not hundred percent comfortable with myself . Yes we need to accept our self first , you need to go step by step and try to accept H and whatever else bother you on yourself. You don't need to forgive yourself , only try to make something out of your situation and try to grow on it....learn out of it....be yourself...H will give you in the future less symptom's but most important your mind will calm down too....because H means to have annoying symptoms but the worst thing is your mind playing bad games with you, your mind try to bring you down every day at the beginning.....tell your mind: I am better, I will be stronger and I am a great person , with or without H...your mind will calm down at one point and you will be a much happier person again.....THINGS GET BETTER.I PROMISE;IT WILL . big hug

Hi, well since when he is sweating? did it start short time ago. Not sure where are you living but it got dam hot over here in Barcelona, I am sweating the whole day.:) Probably its only the summer , if he would have got herpes he probably have fever or some symptom's....I wouldn't worry to much about it Or maybe henry the herp is right and you did had far to much wrestler sex :) :). don't worry to much about

He don't live in a prison, he opened his mind....wow I don't know if I could be that awesome person in his position......he is free and say what he really believe in. inspiring human.

HI, how long do you have herpes ? Are you a male or female? its important question because the itchy feeling over long time of period is for woman much more usually then for men. In the beginning your immune system fight the virus , so the itchy feeling can go on for a while till it get less. Woman have more membrane at the vagina , the skin is much more thin , so the virus have better chance to make his way around. L-Lysine didn't helped to much for me but I read a lot of messages on the website and IT DID helped many people to control the virus a bit better. Try it out yourself and you will see if it have any affect on you or not. What I can recommend is eating with coconut oil and turmeric, they both naturally antivirals, maybe you wane try that too....turmeric is quit cheap herbal , you should take 3-4 gram every day in your food. Coconut is more expensive and you have to get used to the taste but I learned to like it now. Give it all a try but separately that you can see what works for you best. Good luck

Hi, I do get sometimes this red areas without blisters(for short time after shower or being to long in the sun ,it don't stay long) . Yes it can be an Ob even if you don't show any blisters...for me it don't feel like sandpaper but it do look suspicious. I guess at that time the virus is spreading but we cant be sure about it because herpes is a little motherfucker :) who do what it wants. I check every day and I think my mind see sometimes more then there is, well I am sometimes confused too even after 2 years of H but I do understand the virus much more then in the beginning.

Hi, well there is no guaranty that you will NOT infect somebody even there is a low chance of even 2-3 percent. Well but this how the statistics are, there is a chance of contraction that virus but the chance is quit low ,when you take condoms and antivirals. Well I am one of the unlucky ones and I received HSV 1 genitals even I had it orally since I was ten years old ....the chance to get it on different place is really low but it happening...well live happening but never stop living. If I would meet the right guy I would tell him about my feelings about him and then about H statistic....well we talk about an annoying skin condition not about a killing virus....I know there will be people who will reject me but there have been a lot who reject me before for other reasons. So take this as a trigger because I rushed to often in relationship , a relationship I should never have went to....Take H as your trigger , even this can be hurtful and yes there is a really low chance you can infect somebody.

Hi, well same here Mel_B, I had couple of relationships , I am 32 and it never worked out for me ...I never was truly in love in my live , which is really strange with 32. I was in relationship's with some nice guys but it never worked out ,from one side or the other....since I have H I haven't be in any relationship because I didn't found anybody nice I wane share my little secret :) Well usually I rushed I an relationship only because I was attracted or liked this persons character but I started that without having this deep feeling .People always tell me about...your hurt beating when you meat them , you feel comfortable., they felt this I the one ..and so on. I always went to relationship if I liked somebody a bit, I thought that love will come...but it didn't came. Actually for some of my friends it worked , they meat somebody , it haven't been the great love from beginning but now they love each other a lot....Love seems to me really strange but maybe we can find it one day...never say never...I am here and waiting...I am not searching but if it comes around I will be there :):)

Hi, well I don't have your sickness but I do have an autoimmune sickness (which called crohn) Yep you can get H easier with this kind of disease, probably you have more symptom's or OB then other people, well this is nothing nice but something on the top we have to deal with.............well destiny make our history......accept it , there is no way around but we both will be ok , even if its much harder then for other people on that website. You know when I first talked to adrial, he said something really strange disturbing. I told him that I have crohn, I explained him what it is and he said :well why you care then about herpes because this is so much worse........I didn't knew what to say, I felt really bad because H its the same if you have a disease or not.............I know he didn't meant it that way but it let me feel really bad. If you have a cronical disease things are so much worse then for others. I feel jealous about people who write on that website ,they have only have one ore 2 Ob a year..........fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuuuuccccccccccccccccckkkkkkk I would be happy to be in that situation but still we will be ok and I am happy that you know what you have now. Big hug my brother

Hi SpakleyPony, first thing , hehhehehee what a strange name, I like it :) Well I only started one discussion on that website, it was when I first signed in the gym, the first day and I got an OB directly of sweating ......I was so angry, why I get an OB when I try to do something good to my body....well it was middle of the day, I was angry about the OB and I had couple of beers after discovering my OB and I wrote that post.............I was so angry...and I wrote a stupid post on that website...well happening :( Now I exercise every two days and it don't harm me anymore.......sweating and sun is still a trigger but its not more like before. Your body get used to exercise and sweating, You learn but your Herpes learn a bit too....its some kind of interaction between the virus and me....he is allowed to come out at some point but don't disturb me when I do some good thing for my body. Do some exercise even H bunch you in the face at the beginning....H will calm down