Judith

Inspiring video:)thanks

Hi Molly, yep I do have itchy feeling too ,even if I don't get an outbreak. Its not every day sometimes I don't have symptom's for a 1 or 2 weeks but its coming and going for short while , sometimes without any reason.....so long you don't get any spots you don't need to worry to much but I know its really really annoying feeling.

Hi, you right guys it not only sex , that's not what I was saying !!!!.I am dealing with H and it let me have a better look at myself and it helped me to grow as a person, yes absolutely but I don't think I should DATE with my constantly OB and sleep with somebody , this wouldn't be fair to that person. The transmission rate with condoms and antivirals is by 1 -2 percent but only if you don't have an OB, that's all I meant......well some people need years to get better about OBs but this don't mean that cant only can feel ok with myself and my friends, I can feel good without sex too even if its difficult. Anyway everybody have a different opinion:) none of that is wrong. Or is it?

Like that guy and what he say but now I know how bad my german accent sounds( at least he sound german hehehhe )

Well i am fine darling but my herpes OB means every 1 or 2 month so no sex included hehehe.No worry i feel good and i am happy even with herpes.I only will join and ask adrial if i am in the position to able to have herpes talk.8or sex )..thats all....I am fine :)thanks WC dancer but some have H and some have a bit more of H :) thats live

Hi, i saw the video and the vocal were really strong,Adrial i hope you will help a lot of people to get better .When my herpes get better (even still not after 2 years) I will join your coaching too but till then i hope you all will learn al lot from adrials experiience.Good luck guys.learn about yourself and feel more free abour H....you deserve it. :):)

Hi Xtina, wow you seem to have a very nice doc, he has brought it to the point herpes is only skin condition and it dont will kill you ...its only a little bit anoying :)Its great that he answered you all you questions and gave you a positiv thinking about that virus , a lot of doctors have no clue and they let they patient in the dark.People go home alone with this diagnosis and have to deal with it by theyselfs, they think nobody else have it but as he told you he have 1 patient a day which is quit a lot.Nop you right you are not dirty ( we are not dirty) and lets go on and talk about Herpes that everyone will understand thats very much in comon.Hope you stay that positiv even the virus will give you ups and downs but I can see you strong person.big hug

I am thankful to fell and see my real selve...its not much but i am happpy for that...even i dont have a real family but thats more i could acpect the last 20 years.i learned a lot...and i still will do

Hi, yes seefood is quit well because it have a lot of l-lysine and vegatables and fruit will help to fight against that virus too..There are alot of things which are natural antivirales ,one of them is for excample .tumeric or coconut oil.

HI, pain in the upper thigh is quit normal, probably your lymph nodes are swollen because they fighting the virus.In the past i always got this symtoms (now not more) and if you touch that area its quit sensitiv.I dont think it come from the antivirales,they can have side affects to but this usuall nausea or belly issues.Hope that helped

Hi Paul, the first two weeks i tried antivirales i felt like pucking and tired the whole time , i needed to stop it but i started couple of month ago again and the second time i got less symtoms like i had before.Its really important that you take the medication in the morning with your food, dont take it seperatly or in the evening.I had the same issue with vitamins I took in the past ,I felt really sick about them , always take food with medication.

Hi SoberSally, darling i am really sorry that you are in that bad pain and mood, everybody on that website understand how are you feeling,we all gone through the same situation.The first OB can be really difficult and destroying but i promise it will get better in the furure.You have your first OB and this means you feel confused , discusting , lonely but this is not what you are at all,you are not herpes, you are the same person as before only with some new thing to deal with in your live, something you have to get used to .You will start to get used to it and H will help you to grow as a person , it will show you self acceptence and even if you feel really bad in that moment , you will feel much diffrently about it in the future.The first time i got it ,I felt like i wanne kill myself but H was only a trigger to make myself a better person , to live a bit healthier(ok to be honest not alwas but i try) and to be more honest to myself about what i want. You are married and i guess you both are in healthy good realationship so your partner will help you over that. Dont start to think where you got it from , you will never get an answer and it anyway not important , you both together are important, the way you both deal with it together and how you fight the bad feelings.....YOU will BE better sooon :) I am sorry for the reaction of the doctor in your emergency but this is quit normal the most doctors have no idea, they think only prositutes have it......well NNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOO 20 percent of the world population have it and i dont think i am a slut :)))) and you neither.:) Now its important that you get the bloodtest which typ you have ( even if you married ...its good to clarify) and that you maybe get antivirales fo the begining to slow down you symtoms and in the future you can decide if you take it daily. Sweatheart i hope anyway that you try to enjoy you thanksgiving(i am from europe so we dont have nice dinner tonight ,even if i wished :( )and you get better soon.I give you both a big hug and any question please let me know.Judith

HI ICHBW, i dont think tampons is the problem , the most woman get outbreaks before or in they period.I got constanly outbreaks(less now) but i dont think thats from tampons its more that your hormons get crazy before you get your period and this cause an OB. I know its very disturbing and painful we all know how you feeling darling.Antivirales is an option but i would suggest you only take it if you are in an realtionship or if you get constantly outbreaks and symtoms (like i did every month).Daily antivirales will low down the spreading of h but it will not stopp H from breaking out but sure if you have always symtoms you should take it.A lot of people swear on L Lysine so maybe it something which can help Tto calm down the blisters i tried coconut oil and tree tea oil , its both natural antiviral and its helping with the healing process. For sure you should try to get an doctor appointment asap to getantivirales if its needed

Hi, why you think you have both, did you got H 1 from somebody who have it genital and you gave that person oral sex too?Well you only will be sure if you have both when you are getting an outbreak on your mouth too, it can happen but it dont need to.

Hi , yes you can have both, actually i have both(on my mouth and genital ).Why you think you have both(any symptoms??)? Actually 80 percent of all people have HSV 1 and not all of them have ever had an outbreak,so it could be that you really only have it genital but not on your mouth, even if you never showed an outbreak on your moth you never will know for sure because everybody (80-90 % so nearly everyone ) have it.dont worry about that because only 90 percent of all human cant answer the question... they all dont know :)

Hi, yes you can get the vulva or clitoral pain without getting an outbreak but this symtoms show that the virus is active and your body try to fight the virus.A lot of people get pain in the lymph nodes too(usally around upper legs ).Well sometimes you have symtoms and nothing happen ,sometimes you have no symtoms and you get an OB.......its really strange how our body react to that virus but i started to read symtoms even they not always obviously...but after a while you can read that symtoms even if you dont get OB....need time.

Hi, well it always deppens on your body and immun system , when i eat nuts I get directly an outbreak but a lot of people dont get an OB at all.Sugar is never good because every virus (H or whatever)love it and it let them grow but sure you always aloud to eat a bit of it.Never stop living :)enjoy

;( sorry to hear well maybe you havent be ready for this yet but you will get stronger at one pont, this may need time ...much much time...but you will realize thatit get easier...promise that you get better

HI, well maybe really none of his other partners got it , sure everyone can get it even with condoms and antivirals but this didn't mean that we need to contract to other person ...if this would be like that we all wouldn't be aloud to have sex anymore. He told her he have herpes ,so for my opinion he is aware of contracting this skin condition to other partners, he were honest but he shouldn't took advantage of a drunk girl but he was drunk too and at least he told her.If he wouldn't have told her, I would say he is a really arsewhole but he did and they are both growing up people which have been drunk and make the decision to have casual sex. I read a lot of post on this website were people had sex with other person without telling them they have H.......When I read that I always scream out loud.nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo why you do that. Yes if he contracted it to her (which we still don't know yet and I don't believe she got it)it will impact her live but he told her....I think you cant only blame him????sorry my English is not the best maybe I misunderstood something here but there are always two person. Sorry Maybe I don t get it

HI Hope, yes the first month your body try to fight and keep up with the virus so a lot of people having cold symptom's(swollen nymph nodes too ), I think people with type 2 have more symptom's like people type one because hsv2 is a bit stronger ( which type do you have ? ). At the beginning your immune system freak out and you are open for a lot of other infection. You are still in your first 6 month so there is a big chance that the symptom's will calm down and you get soon much better. Try to eat healthy ,less drinking and try to keep stress down.Any questions please let us know.Judith

HI, yes there is a chance that you contracted herpes and yes as WCSDancer said it deepens if you used condoms and if he take antivirals( with both the chance is really low it deepens if he have typ 1 or 2). Well you both have been drunk and at least he told you before you had sex that he have H ,even if he should have waited till you both have been sober again....BUT HE TOLD you...so he have been honest... not every guy would do it in that situaton .If you still didn't showed any symptom the chance that you contracted H is quit low but I would suggest that you will have a test in the next 3-6 month to make sure( H antibody need to build up before you know for sure). Anyway I really don't think that you really contracted it because you didn't had wild rough sex that night...so relax and learn out of it and have a saver sex life .(at least if you really didn't used condoms which I don't know ).Big hug.Judith

Hi Peace and love, you having a really great friend, its fantastic that he don't only see that skin condition he see you as a great person which you are :)I am really glad that he find the right /true words to help you on your way to start your journey of self acceptance. When I disclosed to my friend they chose unhappy encroach words, they didn't wanted to hurt me but they didn't know what to say and choose the wrong answer. He is right your are not dirty at all , it can happen to all of us and I am sure he will help you to your difficult times (herpes or whatever will come ). Big hug Judith

Hi, well thongs shouldnt be a problem but shaving can cause an outbreak. I did shaved last week and 2 days later I got an small outbreak , so be careful with that but this deepens always on you immune system maybe it will be no problem for you.Judith

HI this CAN be a live, no you cant pass HSV2 by oral sex if you only have it genital. There is a 1-2% chance that you can give it to your partner if they give you oral sex but the chance is really low. No it cant be passed by a drink ,when you have HSV I guess there is a bigger chance at least you drink from the same glass couple of seconds later on. Wine especially red wine makes your body warm , it chance the balance from basic to sour which means its the perfect area for the hsv and other viruses but it don't mean you cant drink at all. Anyway Alcohol is a big trigger for sure,when I am drinking a lot I usually get much more symptom's (itchy feeling) the next day but it don't mean you have to get an OB. Yes you can get Herpes even if you take condoms but Antivirals + protection will minimum the risk of transmissions to a very low level Around 1-2 percent.big hug

HI, sorry I don't know if there is any research on that but from my experience when I couldn't sleep the whole night and I had to role in my bed from one sight to the other it sometimes have been trigger of getting an outbreak. I felt quit nervous the whole night and the next morning I saw a little red bump. For me there seems to be a connection it happened far to often that I could say it was only a random and get the hot flashes too.