Judith

Hi Lelani, i am very happy that you found the right man , thanks for sharing . yes we need to heal and love ourself first,if not nobody else will do.....i am still working on that :) but hopefully one day it will get better. I wish you both the best.Un besos grande.Judith

hi, no sorry i dont think that if have to do with your herpes but every body react diffrently. My period startet once earlier when i took valtrex but usually its fine. have a good day

??? your period affect your herpes outbreaks but it dont affect your period itself ....???wat you wanne know

I loved that video.yeah we always need to accept and love ourselve first but this is a punch of work...hope i get there at one point.thanks so much

Hi Max, i always used condoms and i have HPV and HSV and i never sleeped much around, your coworkers are really uneducated people.....sorry that you had to listen to that crap,we alI can imagine how horrible you have felt in that situation. Itold couple of good friends about my herpes but serously nobody really took my advise, they sleeping with their partners without protection .My friend told me that her new boyfriend only had 3 woman in his life,so no risk at all???????????What?????with how much people his ex girlfriend sleeped....this comments make me really said because they sould know now better , they see how much i am suffering with HSV and HPV.Another friend...well not more , even told me that they would never sleep with someone who have herpes. Anyway we should give this Information to much people as we can ,that herpes loose that stigma . Hsave a good day. JUdith

Hi Foreverhappiness, i think all of us had a little moment to be suicidal, i have been drunk last weekend at my best friends house and i told her that i would prefer to jump from a bridge then be my whole live alone.......well sure i will not do that because its stupid and there are so much beautiful things in the world.Its not easy to be alone but i try to cheer myself up with good things, today i will go for BBQ and tomorow i will meet some friends for hiking in the beautiful mountains of spain.Its very difficult to see all this people around you who not seem to have any serious problems but everyone have his own little herpes story..people dont tell you they problems....we all in te same boat, only with diffrent hard stuff to deal with.I dont believe in god but its really great if god helps you to go through this hard time....believe in god but dont forget to believe in yourself....i wish you the best ,give you a big hug and send you some sun and light from barcelona.besito

Hi sjj238, yeah the both are absolutey right the OB allways come with your period or when you maybe have couple of drinks to much and you immunsystem is down and yeah you will find other ways of sex when you have an outbreak down there.Anyway sure you can share your toothpaste(not the brush ofcourse :) ) but you souldnt let anyone drink from your glass or eat someting what you touched with your mouth if you have oral herpes.If this person only have a little open sore you probably will infect that person...i kissed my ex ones on his neck after he shaved and since then he get sometimes a little outbreak there. wish you a great evening Judith

Hi Foreverhappiness,(sorry use directly your new positiv name) if a girl let you down directly after this she was anyway not the right one for you. This happend to a lot of guys i meet even without herpes, you were responsible and nervous about that situation and this dont mean that you never can please a woman again.If you find a nice girl and you both feel confortable to take that step, your mind will relax and there will be no problem at all.You only need to feel good about that situation. Next time let yourself bit more time to know that girl a bit better and you will see that things will change. big hug

Hi Jessi, I have hpv and HSV1 too and how i could see on this forum , we are not the only one with both viruses.HPV is really much in common, i really think that nearly everyone have it.....the problem is that there is no test for man or any bloodtest at all. To eat with coconut oil didnt helped for my herpes but for my hPV ,the test were negativ the last times...maybe you can give it a try...the taste is at beginning a bit strange but i got used to it. see ya

Hi kitcattat, well you dont get with every outbreak the bumps, sometimes its only red ,itchy and burn a bit.You started to take your medication and that why you probably will not get any bumps at all :) . Well at least you are a bit luckier then the most of us, 1 outbreak every 8 month shows that you have a really good immune system and your body fight the virus in a good way.I know its always annoying to get an outbreak but it will be over in couple of days.Hope you are better soon

great videos .thanks so much

Hi starynite, your ex had sex with you when you were drunk and more or less sleeping, thats quit bad .....sorry even if he is your ex , this sound quit horrible to me.Dont worry if he get herpes, actually i think he would earn it....you dont need to worry about it at all, you said that that you dont wanne have sex at all...thats it.Seriously dont worry about him worry about yourself, he used you when you were completely wasted. Good luck darling

hehheeheeh you are a really dating queen.....at least you try, i dont......but i think its really great..i hope you get the one...the only one

Nop :( but i anyway have problems to sign in your site the last days,not sure why..well probably my PC...i will make a rebuild .thanks

not sure why but i tried to look this video and it stop every 2 minutes?????is it only me, usually i dont have problems....wanne see whhhhh oooooooopppppppsssiiiiiie and her comment on that

Hi i am german but i live in Spain, the doctor need to give you always a medical recipe if you have a cronical disease, i dont think that there is any diffrence in UK.I think this doctor have no knowlege at all,please go to a diffrent one.

Hi, for me it only is itchy down there but if i dont take my medication for my tyroid i have a itchy feeling over my whole body, mostly after shower.It could be that you have a over or underfunction of your tyroid...you should go to your doctor for a test.

Thanks very much ,was a strong talk.My body is a wonerland, i always will connect this song with pink handcuffs and with your funny talk heheheh.I really got something out of this video,nice one.thanks Ashley an Adrial

Hi , yep i have the same feeling like you, i went 2 weeks ago to BBQ and all my friend came with the partners,they kissed around bla bla...yes i am jealous about that too.the situation let me feel really unconfortable so i went home after 2 hour.I got invited to go for short holiday trip soon but it will be with two couples and they quit new together,so no way that i am going at all.... this would let me feel more alone.Hopefully we both get over this at one point becuase jealousy creats anger too and that not good at all....i wanne be happy :)good luck

hehe, well that was great way to intodruce yourself.Very honest and in a lovely way.They guy know what you have and he is right.....probably he got hit by bus first before you would give it to him....so maybe you should meet him at one point for coffee, who knows what happen :) well some friend without herpes are on this websites too and they get the same crazy ,pervert messages like you...i think thats normal on all dating sites.Most people dont search love ,they search for sex.....so avoid that stupid messages.Good luck

Hi, yep thats absolutely normal, i even have it sometimes for one day afterover 17 month of herpes.You not´always get an outbreak with that symtoms but it shows that the virus is still around. soon over,promise :) Judith

hi Max_G, i dont take L-lysine (didnt helped for me ) but i do take coconut oil, i eat all my meals with the oil and if i have an outbreak, i even put it on the area of the outbreak.........it helps ,it help to heal the infected area much faster.I have herpes 1 too and i have to say that it always spreading out on diffrent areas,i usually dont have outbreaks on the same place, it change every time.well but one of the good things on herpes 1 is that its not that aggressiv like version 2 ,i know its frustrating and annoying but your body will learn to control it after a while. Sorry i dont know the brand jason because i am from europe but most important is that you eat healphy,eat lot of veggies and stuff like that.Maybe try to eat your meal with coconut oil, at beginning i didnt liked the taste but i got used to it. I dont use latex gloves when i shower ,i only be carefull at the times i have an outbreak....i try not to touch the area with a towel or my hands,thats all. Wish you good luck, enjoy your weekend.Big hug Judith

Hi lelani, thanks for your great and positiv post , you are an ispiration for all of us.I amreally happy that you still have tht great connectio with this man :) i wish you a lot of love and light in your live. big hug judith

well done :)we all happy for you.thanks for telling us

Hi stephanie, sorry that you feeling so bad about all this,i can understand ,we all in the same shoes. Actually what you writing gives me the feeling that you not more into that realationship anymore....i cant see any love for him in your words.Do you really think that you should go on like this, it sounds like for me ,that you dont trust him or love him anymore.Maybe you should take a time off and realize what you really want.Its difficult to discosure to someone but its better then stay unhappy all your live ,with a guy which dont respect you.i never disclosure neither but i dont think that you should stay in unhappy relationship,even if you have a child together.This guy not even wanne talk about herpes with you,that horrible.I can see that you dont wanne be alone all your live but this dont need to be.............live can be better ............. another guy see it diffrently and have resepect for you,talk and resepct you even with herpes.Dont let yourself stop live, try to go for it and try to have better one.Maybe i am wrong , i dont know you but it sound really unhappy. with that guy...........if i am wrong ,sorry.wish you the best